“Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery; None but ourselves can free our minds.” - Bob Marley Redemtion Song
You are responsible! You are responsible for everything that happens in your life. For everything you are happy with and everything you are not happy with. You simply must accept the fact, that everything that is around you right now is the direct result of who you are, of who you were to that very moment, and who you are becoming in the moments to come.
Once you can accept that taking responsibility is within your power, your power is increased automatically. The power to focus and start creating a life of your own creation is always a part of you from that moment on because you know that you and only you has that power to create anything. If you want more of anything, you must focus on what it is you want and go after it without any doubt or hesitation. If you want to increase your financial wealth, improve a relationship, or get a promotion- you will start to think that its possible because you can take responsibility for making it happen.
Will your fears automatically disappear? Absolutely not, but you will know where those fears come from and you will do things in a different way to make them work for you and not against you. If you are willing to take full responsibility for your life, your life will mean much more to you and therefore, you will protect it by all means but not at the cost of creating anything negative.