In a world in where the divorce rate is 50 to 60 percent, I believe that couples are looking for solutions or strategies to keep their marriages/partnerships strong. There are many many and I repeat many books out there that give a ton of advice, but the divorce rate continues to climb. Are there any real solutions out there? I truly believe there are and Jo and I accidentally stumbled on it and have been using it without really knowing that we were. I would jump of any cliff for her, cross any rivers, fight any bears, and anything else if it meant making me feel like a Super Hero for her.
I totally believe that I have used my MaxPower strategies to keep Jo interested in me, but little did I know that she was directly and indirectly using the "secret" power that all females can use to keep their mate completely interested and obsessed with them at any given moment. If you click on this link, https://bit.ly/2QlUf1N , you too may learn how to maximize your inner female powers to keep him completely obsessed with you. I've heard of many different strategies, but this one just tends to make a ton of sense.
You see each man wants to feel like a Super Hero to their wife even though they may not say it or admit to it but they do, believe me, we do. The crazy thing is that I am literally a Super Hero, Joseph "Dozer" Mendoza, immortalized as a Comic Book Character in the Phenomenal book, WetWorks by Whilce Portacio. I received this honor in the early 1990's and believe me, it has been a bit of pressure to live up to this characterization. But it has also had its perks and one of them is feeling good about being able to make my wife proud. Not just because of the distinction of being a comic book character, but also because she knows that she can count on me whenever we are in a bind of any kind. I use my Super Hero instincts and I swiftly try to resolve the situation. And, yes its about having purpose and being accepted that is very attractive to your partner.
As a matter of fact, I am in the process of writing a book about how we managed to make our union work and how we continued to remain strong regardless of the circumstances we faced. Now that I have explored and done more research in this area, I will be able to site it with confidence. And please keep in mind that if I share any information with you, a link, it is intended with the sincere intention of helping you Maximize your inner Power for whatever your goals may be. Please click on the link, https://bit.ly/2QlUf1N and let the fun continue! See what others are saying about this strategy and how it is radically changing their relationships for the better.
What an amazing honor and blessing to be asked to speak to the youth. I have done it in many forums and I have truly appreciated all opportunities! It is one of the most natural and most satisfying things that I have a passion for. It is the outcome or results of the MaxPower life that I speak about.
Why? Well if you were to know me, you would know that I had little to no knowledge of my own internal self worth or value when I was young because of the circumstances that I faced at the age of 5. I had one of the biggest “victim” mentalities due to feeling like I had little to no control over what was happening around and to me. You see, I had lost my mom and dad, my country and extended family, was tossed into the lives of people that felt like strangers, and I had to get used to a totally new way of living. As tough as all these experiences were and may seem to be, I consider them all blessings today! Yes, I am so blessed that I was given these experiences which cultivated in me a sense of life, a sense of journey, a sense of experiencing loss and gain, love and deceit, and the experience of solid and not so solid friendships. I consider them a source of inspiration and passion because it gave me a strong reference point to realize how truly blessed I was!
I don’t want to diminish the pain that I experienced and or make anyone believe that it was an easy journey because I did almost fall deep into darkness or into the point of no return. Did I ever contemplate suicide as a solution? Heck yes- many times! But the lessons in those moments were extremely powerful and filled more with the joy of life! I hardly ever speak of the ill will that I wanted to cause myself and others, but I did! Yes, there were actually many times that I know I hurt those around me only because I was hurting deeply. I never wanted to cause harm, but I was calling out for help and help always came through in many forms and through many different people and experiences. This is why I have a deep appreciation for being able to be considered a person of character and to be given the opportunity to speak to the youth about perseverance, forgiveness, a sense of self worth, identity, empathy, compassion, and love.
To this day, I still question as to why I was given the opportunity to realize my dreams and then I look deeper inside myself, and then there is no need to question anymore! I intended to be the inspiration, influence, and light that was shown to me by other people. You all are true inspirations, blessings, and the light to someone other than yourself! You mean the world to someone that needs your understanding, your story, your compassion. You too can be that person that will speak from the heart and truly touch someone’s life- especially if you Intend to follow through...
Do you have to truly know what you want in order to exercise your MaxPower? Or can you exercise your MaxPower to figure out what you truly want? I think either way, you are wanting something out of life because we are forward moving creatures. We are always thinking and creating about how to get our simplest things we need met such as water, food, and shelter. Some of you have a ton of resources, but maybe take them for granted because you know that they will always be there, but for some people, food and other basic survival resources are not so easy to come about.
But back on topic, yes we all tend to move in the direction of something we want not truly something that we need. And its more than okay to want things!
If you want a Ferrari, get a Ferrari! If you want a mansion, go and get a mansion! If you want a diamond ring, or anything else you desire, go and get it! You deserve it and you were "Born to be Rich" anyways according to the Great Bob Proctor and his book. If you want to be famous or powerful, you can go and do that too. The more you focus on that thing you want, chances are, you will be doing or having or being that thing you've created with your powerful mind. If you want to help with world peace, then go out and do that. If you want to be Rock Star, then start Rockin...
Don't you agree that some careers actually choose you because you almost sort of wanted to be that for so long? You just knew you wanted to be a cop, a doctor or an investor for a very long time. You knew that there was nothing that was going to stop you from getting what you want. Many others end up fighting with their parents because their parents think they know best what their children want and they end up choosing their careers, relationships, and many other things.
Knowing what you want, what you truly want takes knowing who you truly are! Once you are very sure about where you arrived from, what keeps you going, and what gives you the grace to align with the Divine, you realize that you are much more than your wants! You aren't ever going to take anything with you back to where you came from. You will leave your contributions and a legacy based on how you chose to live, but I believe that your energy will never die. Your energy might be regenerated and end up back on another mission or experience back on earth.
In other words, what matters what you want is totally personal and what ever you acquire, enjoy it for what it is!
Is Contemplation a MaxPower2U trait? Absolutely!!!
What is contemplation? Most people don't use this word often unless you hear that he or she was contemplating suicide. So when you contemplate Suicide, what are you actually doing? You are actually thinking about it and your focus on it is pretty keen or pretty clear as you think more about it. WAIT, does that mean that we can do any type of thinking with Contemplation? That's the secret in a nutshell to life!!! I stumbled on it in Dr. Wayne Dyer's book, "Excuses be Gone". He goes on to explain that when we Contemplate on something so much with clarity and it soon starts to feel real, we are now in tune with the spirit of manifesting within us. All excuses seem to disappear because the desire to have the thing that one contemplates on is so powerful and potent that it refuses to take no for an answer.
So if you are getting an aha moment right now, it happened to me also. It suddenly dawned on me and it made perfect sense as to why so many people achieve a certain level of success at anything they put their thinking toward, even something so tragic as suicide. The mind does not discriminate. It gives you anything you want or desire- anything. Life has no other choice but to give you the experience that you have made real through the intense and clear thoughts that create things from the invisible, but very real matter.
This is great great news for all of us! We have the same capabilities through being born on this earth with the capacity to think and create a thought that is going to create anything that you contemplate on. Contemplating is super powerful because it is not the same as daydreaming, it is focused thinking about something you desire with such intense clarity. We have to learn to recognize the difference between the two and then choose the thoughts that will make your reality exactly what you want it to be. For example, if you want a certain type of car, be very clear about the color, the mpg, the power, the space inside, the camera, the tires, the lights, etc. Once you contemplate buying it with clarity, it will be parked in your driveway in no time. Or if you take time to contemplate the type of person you want to marry, the type of school you want to attend, the type of friends you want to have, the instrument you want to learn, the book you want to write, the speech you want to give, etc.
Anything and everything that one has contemplated on with exact certainty, has resulted in some form of material manifestation. Bill Gates and Steve Jobs are great examples of contemplating a world with portable computers and look at where we are now. Even the most common person can have computing powers at his/her fingertips because of their contemplation.
Use your MaxPowers to contemplate your deepest dreams and desires and I can't wait to hear all about your success. Follow your passions!!!
Artwork by Whilce Portacio
The world of Work- what does this mean? Have you ever thought about this word from a MaxPower2U perspective? I recently was listening to a speaker talk about a male not being a man until he was working and was defined by his work. Do you agree? Does a man's work truly make him a man or is he a man just because he was born a man? A gangster can say that he's putting in "Work", and he truly may be, but does this make him any more of a man than someone who is not engaged in a "Work Like" activity? Or is anyone who is actively contributing to a specific task considered a worker or do they have to be earning a certain living for themselves and or for others?
In my life, I have participated in doing several jobs that can be considered work and for the record, they did pay me for services rendered. Did these jobs or work titles define me? Well, to a certain degree they did and some that I wasn't too happy about, motivated me to search for a better title, I meant type of work which would define me more as a man- no, I just wanted to progress and use my mind more. I wanted a title that I felt worthy of because Society said so. For example, I worked in the fields picking oranges, grapes, and lemons. I often felt that I was beyond this work title of "field laborer" so I did not truly adopt the title. But others did not have the same privilege of other opportunities, so they just accepted because they did not have a choice but to surrender to their title of field laborer. Or did they?
I joined the Navy back in 1987 hesitantly and without any other choice, had to bear the title of Sailor. Did it make me more of a man even though didn't necessarily enjoy the work? Although it did grow on me and I felt a part of a brotherhood unlike anything else. I still didn't see myself as a Sailor for a very long time and after 7 years of service I separated with an honorable discharge. I often wonder how Sailors feel after serving 20 or 30 years and then their title is taken from them because they are no longer working in that capacity. I guess the respect from the Naval or military profession will always be there, but now, you are of non-significance, maybe even less of a man because you are no longer working in that profession. I just wonder!? Are you more of a man knowing that you served in the service or would you be the same man if you were an accountant for 30 years? What if you were a garbage man or a stock broker for 30 years? Would they be more of a man based on their work and what they earned while at their work?
Women are extremely important in the work place as well as we all know, but I have to ask- why is it that we still hear about work inequality between males and females. Would it make a male less of a man if the woman made more money or had a high paying position than him? I wonder? Who gets to make this law? Who gets to define a person based on the type of work that they do? Who knew that it would get this complicated about being human and having to feel pressured about being or doing some type of work just so that you can be of any significance to anyone.
Do you know of any people that do not have to do any work and have a ton of significance? Dubai and Saudi Arabia are areas of the world that come to mind because of their leadership hierarchies, but I am sure that America has its own form of Royal families, thus making it easy for anyone born into those families to have immediate wealth and significance without having to worry about having to work a day in their lives.
In a sense, the world that we live in has many definitions about everything having to do with us being human beings and what exactly we should engage in and what makes us more of something. Just now that you are already enough and that you came into this world with a gift to share with humanity. I believe that my gift is enjoying learning about the power of the mind, our free will, and how we can manifest the things we want to see in our lives. The more I know, the more I feel that I can share with others that want to know more about what they can do to align with their own gifts.
To be at your MaxPower, you must have the ability to take the required action toward a worthwhile goal or dream! Regardless of how small or big your goal or dream is, hopefully big, because the Universe will give you what you prepare for and whatever you act toward. Taking action means just that, keep dreaming and keep forming goals. The smarter and clearer that they seem to be, well, it just helps you that much faster to attain them.
Why do you think most people don't take action on their dreams? Do you think its fear and if so, what is behind that fear that is so bad that it paralyzes them? Is it that they might not have the skills, the know how, the education behind them or the support? Or is it things that are in their mind that keeps telling them not to take any risks? Or is it both? Why can't people believe in themselves and push beyond their limits and fears?
After doing much reading on this topic, I have found that the majority of people do not act on their dreams because they have placed mental brakes on their minds. These are super disc brakes that regardless of how easy you make something for them, they will not allow themselves to take the risk due to the story that they believe about themselves. The story that was handed down to them by their parents, community, teachers, and other authority figures. There is always someone around breaking you down and telling you what you can and can't do. And because we are young and vulnerable, we start believing and storing all that junk in our automatic or sub-conscious mind. The part of the mind that is responsible for maintaining your identity to a tee. So whenever you make new Year's resolutions to change, guess who is going to remind you to stop being silly and that you will be who you truly believe you are, a worthless piece of whatever they told you that you were.
But there is Great News!!! You can break free from that type of thinking. Yeah, its going to take some work and possibly some serious tears, but its your mind and you want to take it back and release those shackles that have been placed on your believes by other people who probably meant well but they too were led astray and told lies. You were born to live and be and expression of the Divine. To express your MaxPower and fulfill all your dreams, desires, and goals! So yes, you can start to discover what its going to take in order for you to start believing and acting differently. T Harv Ekert calls this way of believing as having a paradigm, which eventually becomes your life blue print which we follow faithfully. If we know we have a blue print, we also know that we can decode that blue print, understand it, and then change it.
To come in contact with your MaxPower, you have got to harness the amazing power of GRATITUDE. GET EXCITED PEOPLE! Yes, gratitude is the secret, the magic bridge that will connect you with your spiritual power to allow all of the abundance and prosperity you deserve. You must create and have authentic and unconditional feelings of being thankful for the things that you have will more likely bring you more things to be thankful for. You must be thankful for the essentials such as water, air, food, shelter, family, love, empathy, compassion, friendship, kindness, challenges, aromas, textures, colors, ability to see, and etc. You must even be thankful for the amount of money or resources you have even if you think its a very small amount in order to make room for more.
You must be thankful and grateful for the things that you want to create with your imagination, and work on holding that feeling of gratitude despite appearances. For example, if you want to have 20, 000 dollars in the bank, and you know you only have 200 dollars, you must get excited and feel a deep sense of gratitude for having at least 200 dollars and see them as growing and multiplying. You must create the feeling of having and acquiring the 20,000 dollars now in your mind and make them super vivid in your mind. Hold these feelings frequently and with deep gratitude. The longer you can do this, your faith will grow and thus, will move the Universe to collaborate in your favor to bring the 20,000 dollars your way.
Once you have asked with faith and certainty, let it Go and let God/Divinity or whomever you believe is in command of the energy that creates all! Don't worry yourself with how things are going to happen, instead focus on the signs and learn to recognized the signs in which things are being manifested for you. Be grateful when it arrives and give Glory to the Divine.
I am super excited and grateful that I can continue to Grow Spiritually and that I can continue to Blog here and share the good news about our MaxPower and bring it 2U!
With Love and Gratitude,