Have you ever truly loved? This question can easily be answered in a subjective way depending on how you define love for yourself. You may ask, "Truly loved my parents, my pets, my children, my job, my country, my husband, my God?" "Of course I have," can be a choice response but again, it may depend on how someone has experienced life with those mentioned above. As most of us know, we experience life from pleasurable or painful emotions associated with anything or anyone we come in contact with. With this in mind, one may ask, "Truly loved? What does that mean?"
Purity of love, or a true love, is a love in where the emotions that something or someone gives you, goes deep into your soul which moves you in a pleasurable way. You tend to feel happy, safe, inspired, and if something negative happens, you can easily let it go because that person or something means much more to you than just one negative experience. It is a love that forms an unbreakable spiritual bond between people and ideas. Why spiritual? Spiritual because it is based on emotions and feelings that we can't see with the naked eye. They are emotions based on trust and faith!
Has love ever failed you? A direct way to answer this question is DUH, But lets look into this a little further. Was it love that actually failed you, or was it your expectation of the other person's definition of love that failed you? Let us explain further. If its true that a person can learn how to love, isn't it true that there is a chance that they learned to love in a different way than you did? Of course it is. If this is true, then it must be true that we can choose to choose someone that loves like you do or at least close to it. For example, people have met at church, ball games, clubs, etc. and what attracted them to one another was the love of that activity. A similar love of pets, hobbies, cars, and etc. can connect people because the love that connected them with the thing, may be understood only by another who understands that kind of love.
But if none helps you understand that it wasn't you who caused the bad break up because you didn't know how to love the same way or accept the way that they loved, love can be very confusing and frustrating! Because of this, Love can become a fearful thing, the opposite of what it was really meant to be. Out of this fear, people usually start to put up emotional defenses so high that they find themselves in protective bunkers all alone because of that misunderstood fear! Yes, fear clouds the mind and the heart because of little to no awareness of your own wonderful power to Love unconditionally.
The secret is learning to love unconditionally! Just love because it is the emotion that expresses your real you, but don't expect others to love you the same. Don't expect that they will show you the same love because they are obligated to do so, but instead it's your choice to accept the way they love you or not. Unconditional love fights off fear because you are bringing good energy to yourself which more than likely will attract positive love towards you. But if you approach anything or anyone with the energy of Fear, it is likely that they will sense it and will probably be put off by it.
So please choose Love over Fear because it never ever fails you!
With that said, "Put a little MaxPower into your life!"