What happens when someone doesn't feel significant or important especially in a relationship? Most people that go from feeling like their number one to feeling like their last in line find ways to get back to feeling important, even if it means sacrificing the family structure!
How could a person start feeling insignificant? Well, the birth of a baby for example, can become the only focal point for one parent leaving the other partner feel completely neglected. The other partner may not realize that this is happening because they feel that all the attention should be on the baby as they were taught. But as with everything in life, a balance must exist. A baby could have never been born without a partners help, therefore the union between adults must always come first.
It's a constant checking in with each other. With a simple, "I value you gaze, to an I love you love making session!" The union should never ever be compromised because the love between adults needs to be transferred over to their miraculous creation we call baby!
Another example of compromising one's significance is by making the job or career the most important thing in one's life. Yes, there might be the most beautiful home you live in and a grand Rolls Royce to drive, but if your mates soul is love deprived, you bet they may look for it elsewhere! A balance must exist! Keep each other the most important in each other's lives and significance takes care of everything else!
With that said, "Put a little MaxPower into your life!"