Do you know of someone like this? I'm sure you do or you probably will as you interact with more and more people. And when you do, you will notice that there is always that someone who is able to somehow magically talk with these type of people with little or no effort at all. They can approach them without the fear of getting their head chopped off and without the fear of getting something thrown at them. In a professional environment, you know that we are only speaking metaphorically or maybe not.
The interesting thing about these type of people is that they usually don't hold positions of leadership. Who would want to work for someone like that? Imagine being afraid to approach your boss with a simple question, let alone an emergency... That is why most dictatorship led countries don't survive.
But there is always that one person who because of their loving, non-judgemental and unconditional approach, can be around them without any worries of them acting insane or disrespectful toward them. And if they sense a bit of hostility, they quickly know how to reframe the situation to keep it flowing in a positive direction.
So what type of magic do these people have over such stubborn and ill willed people? It's the power of unconditional love- the power of taking the time to understand where the other person is coming from. The power of blasting them with pure and non-judemental love!
Love penetrates even the most solid of hearts that have been closed off for fear of being hurt again. Love melts the pain of a weathered and beat soul. It re-connects the need to want to connect and belong to a trusting group! Yes- trust is usually the feeling that is missing and when they find it with that someone, the stubborn and grumpy can be set free forever with the power of love!
With that said, "Put a little MaxPower into your life!"