How do you feel about using put downs in order to motivate someone to get them to do something you want them to do? What is a put down? Well- I'm sure you've heard some on your journey, but let's try some- you're freaking lazy, wish you were like your older brother, use your brains, your dumb as hell, can't count on you for nothing, can't trust you with this little thing-how do you want me to trust you with something big, get it done today, damn your ....fill in the blanks!
Dang-writing those words was tough! Tough because I don't speak like that and it becomes very uncomfortable doing so! But imagine trying to be positive with someone who is used to the negative above talk- wow, you bet there will be resistance at first! They won't belief your being genuine and it may take a long time to trust you.
But never give up, it is worth feeding the mind with loving, positive, inspirational, and motivational talk! The experts say that one positive phrase has the power of 100 negative ones. So if you use that with your own family and children, think of how well you have strengthened their mind and given them a wonderful foundation to face their lives!
Amazing if you think about it! How many times do you tell your children that you love them, that your proud of them, and that you are lucky to be their parent? They need brain and heart nutrition just like their bodies need essential food nutrition!
If we don't give it to them, or to each other, we can starve them from the greatness that they can become and they might settle and believe that they were meant to be insignificant! We have the power and ability to make them feel significant, special, and grand as they truly are!
With that said, "Put a little MaxPower into your life!"