Are you loyal to all your family members as some are? Or do you think you can be even more loyal? Why would we even be loyal to them more than we would be loyal to other people? Who taught us how to behave in this loyal manner?
Do you know of a spouse or even a boyfriend Or girlfriend that is motivated more to do what is loyal to their family than do what is best for their relationship? There are many cases of separations and divorces due to this behavior by one or the other. But why? What do you think happens to drive them apart?
Yes, it's usually because one person feels secondary to a parent, a sister, brother, grandparent, or even a friend. They feel that they can no longer stand being put second and they end up resenting them even more as it happens more than a few times!
Is there a healthy way to make a significant other feel a part of your tight knit family? Of course there is- just do it! Show them, explain to them, and include them as to why you are so close to whomever you are very loyal to. This usually builds unity and keeps harmony in te relationship. You may even appreciate them a lot more since you are sharing them out of love.
With that said, "Put a little MaxPower into your life!"