Do you know of anyone who tends to have an unlimited "I'm a Victim" account? That no matter how, what, or why you explain something to them, they just think it's all about them.
Amazing how someone can continue to behave in this way, but it's true- they do! You and I know them to be weird, but medical professionals label them as anti-social, dis-connected with reality, border line personality disorder, etc. That is because they tend to want to change, but their mental programming does not allow them to- if anything, it gets worth without the appropriate medication and therapy.
Feel blessed that you have a healthy mind in which you can make healthy goals and attain them. A mind that makes promises and keeps them. A mind that sees the beauty in your children and you cherish them! A mind that can ask for forgiveness and truly forgive. A mind that turns in their victim card for a healthy card! A mind that loves out of true unconditional love and not for the sake of the word! A mind that seeks the goodness in people and not always sees the perverse! A mind that knows that they are connected to the divine and will do the right thing when no one is watching! Be grateful, thankful, and blessed that you have this type of mind.
With that said, "Put a little MaxPower into your life!"