For The MaxPower In You!
You are not Alone!
Legal representation exists for a reason! "Of course it does," you may say- but sometimes many don't know exactly how it's helpful and when it's highly necessary. We want to shine some light on some instances where it is essential and critical in order to preserve your sanity. There are people who don't know when to stop and who will not stop no matter how many times they apologize to you for their wrong doings. They are full of empty promises and apologies don't mean anything to them. You will definitely need legal help because these people are serious about making you pay for what they believe they are entitled to make you pay for.. You can and will find these type of people in any career, capacity, or role and its really hard to know who that person is going to be. Use all your senses to stop the red flags.
Legal representation exists because there are people who have these characteristics in different careers and even functionality levels as we stated previously. The higher functioning people with these characteristics are sly and very calculative about how they will harass you and don't care or don't value or consider other people's emotions and or safety including their own family's safety. Some of them may have children, but the tendency and obsession to want to harm others makes them disregard their own family's worth and value! It's as if their family doesn't exist at all. They don't care if their significant other has asked, pleaded with them to focus on what is most important in their lives-revenge is still the most important obsessionto them because they feel that you never had the right to de-friend them.. They don't care if they negotiate everything they've worked hard for- vengeance is still the main goal for them because they feel wrongly abandoned. They may constantly try to tell you that their motive is to be your friend because they respect you and admire you, but as stated previously, they will say anything to set you up and entangle you in their web of instability. Don't fall for it! Stick to your word- record everything that person has done. It will be very useful in a legal setting.
In our other posts, we talked about having to watch your back from unstable and in-appropriate people that deliberately harass you because they feel justified in causing you harm. Some do it consciously because they want swift vengeance and other people do it because they are mentally unstable. Regardless- you don't deserve the constant berating, rants, and ongoing threats! This is where legal counsel can help you to at least remind them that there are consequences for their unstable and irrational behavior. But remember, you also have to watch your back for other possible negative attacks on your person.
For example, say you made friends with a person whom you believed to be stable, honest, and a solid citizen in the community- but then one day you witness their irrational and unstable behavior and you decide to stay away from them because it becomes a deep concern and a safety issue for you.
You have pleaded with them and asked them politely to never contact you again! You have asked them to forgive you for any wrong that they may have perceived you may have caused them. You took responsibility for your actions and found it in your heart to keep it away from the courts because of the families and children involved, but to no avail. You told that person that you would never ever talk to them and they gave you their word that they would never contact you, but on the contrary- the rants and berating got more and more intense even after several years of you having no contact with them. What would any sane person have to resort to? It's as if they are egging you on to lose it so that they can easily point the finger and say, "See, I told you that he/she was the unstable one!" Again, we encourage you to hold your ground, to follow through with your word and cover yourself with legal and physical counsel.
Incidents of these types have unfortunately increased. We hope that we have shared valuable information with you in this segment of Raising Social Awareness for the good of all.
If you are dealing with anything like this, please feel free to contact us and we will in confidence, try to advocate for you as best as we can.
No one- and we mean no one - deserves to have their lives disrupted in a major way- regardless of what the experience may have been. There is always a resolution to any given situation, but for the unstable, they don't recognize or care about anyone but their vengeance!
We will attend court with you if you need additional support!
We will be discussing Alcoholism and all the dangers and negative behaviors associated with it next week.
With that said, "Put a Little MaxPower in your life!"