What do you think makes anyone stay, let alone your man? Oh- your man? Is this the right way to think about the person your with? As a possession? Is this possible when Man's natural mindset is to be independent, resourceful, and to be depedended upon?
Is keeping someone around for a very long time about trickery, voodoo, or witchcraft spells? Some seem to think so. Some seem to think its about prayer or the luck they create through fortune cookies. What do you think?
Is having a child with him enough to keep him around? Would the guilt of leaving his children be enough to change his mind? Would the thought if someone else raising their children do it? Would the thought of his children calling someone else dad make him stay? With the single parent home statistics rising, that would mean no.
Would money make him stay? Would offering him half of your million dollar inheritance entice him enough? Would a new Porche do it? The facts remain, men don't stay around for money either!
So why do they stay? Simple- because they choose to. It's a choice! It really has nothing to do with you-although it can help him choose to stay, but ultimately, it's their choice! The reality is, is that It's a self inner yearning to fulfill their personal journey. Some choose to take you and the family along, but many won't!
What the heck does that mean? Can't he be with me on that journey? Won't money help with his journey? Great questions, but the journey is an internal journey. It is a usually a journey of self discovery. This is why the journey sometimes is too long and you are left wondering if he will ever get it.
There Is Hope and a Solution!
The Divine's real message to us is that we are not here to discover who we are, but to remember who we are. To remember? Yes, think about it, if you take apart the word, Re- Member and think of its definition, it means to put together facts to help us create the events to what we are trying to recall. So to remember also means to put together. A man is on a journey to put himself together to feel whole all over again! Some men will not readily self admit this, but their actions are very evident. They don't want to be seen as broken- disconnected from love and his creator.
The hope lies in the time that a man takes to understand that he is here to create and not to destroy or disconnect other lives in the same way that he was.
Even when you think that he's chosen someone else over you, that is usually not the case- it is still a self serving reason as to why he won't or will stay! It's the will of the spirit, the will of choice.
With that said, "Put a little MaxPower into your life!"